Chapter 20 Tang Xiaoru: Then I can choose not to have children "I think it depends on Xiaoru's personal plan, whether she decides to focus on her family or her work. If she chooses to focus on her family, I will be her strong support and let her have no worries." "If she wants to focus on her work and wants to work hard for a few more years, then I will also do the logistics work and grow with her." "I personally think that a good relationship between the sexes should be supported by both parties, rather than letting one party shoulder the burden of the entire family. Of course, these are just my humble opinions at the moment. How it will develop in the future should still be based more on Xiaoru's ideas." Chen Qingrong said with a smile. It seems that he said a lot, but in fact, he did not reveal any really useful information at all, it was all repetitive talk. If you encounter a question in life that you don't know the answer to, or that you can't answer directly, then you need to learn to play Tai Chi and talk in circles. What is repetitive talk? To put it simply, it means making simple things complicated. For example, if a girl asks you, do you like me as a person or as a body? At this time, you must not say directly that you like your body or that you like yourself. You can start your statement with something like "I personally think this question is a bit contradictory. You are you, your body is you, and you are also you." This is standard repetition. To put it more simply, it is avoiding the core of the issue and not speaking human language.
Does this trick work? Still there. After all, this is one of the few skills Chen Qingrong has learned in the past few years of work. Tang Chengshan is an old fox. When he heard Chen Qingrong say this, he knew that he didn't want to tell him too much detail. That's right. After all, they have only been together for a short time. It's too early to ask him such a question now. It is very normal for young people to break up and get back together when they are in love nowadays. Even a piece of paper called a marriage certificate cannot protect the love between a man and a woman, not to mention that they don’t even have that piece of paper now. …… After having dinner at Tang's house in the evening, Tang Xiaoru sent Chen Qingrong away first. "Director, aren't you going home tonight?" Chen Qingrong asked tentatively. Tang Xiaoru said helplessly, "It's a rare trip back home. Tomorrow is Saturday, so I must stay here tonight. You can take a taxi back by yourself." After a pause, she pouted and said, "It's a pity that you can't drive, otherwise I could lend you my car." "Thank you for your kindness, Director. I can take a taxi." Chen Qingrong smiled and asked tentatively, "Did I perform well tonight?" Tang Xiaoru thought for a moment and said, "Anyway, my mother seems to like you very much. When we were in the kitchen, she asked a lot of questions about the two of us and said that you are very pretty." Chen Qingrong blushed, "Thank you for the compliment, Auntie. I'm just average." Tang Xiaoru sneered, "You are quite self-aware. Actually, I think you are just average looking." Chen Qingrong, "..." Great, the day is filled with chatter again. "You can go back." Tang Xiaoru paused for a moment before waving her hand. "Be careful on the road, and remember to ask me to reimburse you for your taxi fare." Chen Qingrong said with a smile, "I can still afford a few dozen dollars. I'll leave first. Good night, Director." "Good night."
Chen Qingrong left. Tang Xiaoru sighed quietly, looked back at the living room, and thought that Chen Qingrong was free, and it would be her time for bad luck next. When they returned to the living room, Tang Chengshan began to teach her a lesson. "Don't bring your boyfriend home suddenly like this anymore. Your mother and I are not prepared. Fortunately, we don't have heart disease, otherwise we would have been scared to death by you tonight." "Also, look how embarrassed Xiaomai is tonight. Don't do this again next time." Tang Xiaoru said weakly, "I told you two days ago, but you didn't believe it." "You dare to talk back?" Tang Chengshan slammed the table. "Alright, alright, are you done yet?" Lin Yue glared at her husband. "It's not easy for our daughter to come home, but you won't be satisfied until she's pissed you off, right?" "Besides, I think Xiao Chen is pretty good. He's polite, has a decent job, and his parents are highly educated. He's a good match for our family." She came over and held Tang Xiaoru's hand, urging, "When are you going to marry Xiao Chen? Your father and I are still waiting to hold our grandchildren." marry? Tang Xiaoru was startled and said quickly, "Mom, isn't this too fast? He and I have only just started dating for a short time. We should at least wait until we have been dating for a year or two before getting married, right?" Lin Yue frowned, "You are already 28 this year, 29 in lunar age, which is equivalent to 30. If you continue dating for another two years, you will be 35. Let me tell you, it is dangerous for women to have children after the age of 30. Aren't you afraid?" Tang Xiaoru smacked her lips, "Then I can choose not to have children." "Nonsense!" Lin Yue glared at her. "If you don't give birth to a child, how can your father and I, two old bones, make use of our remaining energy? Besides, if you don't give birth to a child, will your parents-in-law be happy?" "Since ancient times, getting married, having children, and passing on the family line have been unshakable rules. You insist on going against the will of heaven, right? Do you think you are special?" "Mom, you're still talking about my dad. You're so aggressive. I'm leaving soon too." "I'm different from your father. Your father is unreasonable, but I'm trying to reason with you." Tang Chengshan, "???" "Okay, okay, I get it. Let's watch it later." Tang Xiaoru said impatiently, "I'm going to take a shower first, and then go upstairs to sleep. You guys should also go to bed early." "By the way, is my quilt still there?" "Knowing that you'll be back tonight, I've already asked Auntie to prepare a new quilt for you. Do I need you to tell me?" "Ha, thanks, mom." After taking a shower, Tang Xiaoru went back to her room and lay down. She hadn’t slept on this bed for a long time, and it felt quite strange. drop. WeChat rang. Tang Xiaoru clicked on it and found that it was sent by a friend with the remark 36f. This is Yang Bingbing, her best friend since college. Yang Bingbing is meters tall. She became a model after graduating from university. Now she is a contracted model for an entertainment company. She has also entered the showbiz industry and filmed several web dramas. It can be said that she is quite famous. "What is Xiaoru doing?"
"Just laid down, how about you?" "Just finished, I'm exhausted." "???" "What?" Tang Xiaoru blushed, "Although we are best friends, there is no need for you to inform me about this kind of thing, right?" Yang Bingbing was speechless. "Disdain, disdain, what are you thinking! I just finished my skin care before going to bed! Damn, I'm still a virgin, okay?" Please add the monthly ticket to your collection and reading list (End of this chapter)