Li Changsheng couldn't help but said: "Nowadays many people have misunderstood the poem of the Tang Dynasty poet Yuan Zhen's 'poor and poor couples mourn for everything'. Most modern people understand that if there is no material basis for husband and wife, family life, everything will feel sad. But the original meaning of the author Yuan Zhen is not the meaning, his whole poem is, The meaning behind the jokes in the past, now comes to the eyes. The clothes have been executed and seen, but the needles and threads are still left unopened. I still want to feel sorry for my servants and servants, and I also gave money because of dreams. I sincerely know that everyone has this hatred, and poor and lowly couples are sad about everything. It means that the two of us joked about what happened behind us back then, and today it becomes a painful memory. The clothes you wore when you were alive are about to run out: only the needlework is still preserved and I can't bear to open it. I still miss the old love and love your servant more; I also sent you money through dreams. I sincerely know that everyone in the world hates parting; but it is even more sad for us to suffer as husband and wife. Yuan Zhen's original intention was to say that once the husband and wife who lived together say goodbye forever, it is the most memorable and sad thing! This sentence just encourages those couples who are poor and humble to be together. It does not mean that love and marriage without bread are hopeless. Marriage is based on hope! In life, bitterness first and then sweetness, and the sweetness after bitterness is the most fulfilling, most practical and most memorable thing. Success and happiness don't just sit back and enjoy the success, nor can it be achieved overnight; it requires the husband and wife to work together and forge ahead hand in hand to turn the loess into gold. As the saying goes, "happiness comes from struggle."
Yu Anmin looked at Li Changsheng with eyes full of admiration: "Honey, you are really knowledgeable!" When the two of them mentioned these things, it was an in-depth communication, and the two had to reach a consensus. Just now Li Changsheng made an agreement with her: "We have agreed that we will only fall in love and not get married. Even if you get married, you have to wait until you have a child, so that the child can feel that he is not an illegitimate child. At that time, you will have a short marriage and then divorce. " Just now, when Li Changsheng proposed to Yu Anmin and Zhao Tengyi that they should only fall in love and not get married, they especially talked about the romantic France: "France, known for its freedom, The attitude towards divorce is completely different from ours. In France, it is not uncommon for people to get married and divorced several times in their lives, or even to stay unmarried all their lives. Judging from the statistics, about 45% of marriages in France end in failure, because they dislike the trouble of getting married, and nearly half of the marriages in France are in the form of "cohabitation agreement". This form can be called only love but not marriage. As long as you sign a cohabitation agreement, you can enjoy the same rights as husband and wife in terms of taxes, medical care and benefits, but you don't have to bear the corresponding obligations. Dissolving the relationship is very simple, as long as one party goes to the court to sign, the two can break up! Many French people who hold this view of marriage have a high love sugar content when they are together. The famous French lovers Jane Birkin and Serge Gainsbourg, Gainsbourg is known as the French Elvis; Jane Birkin is a famous fashion model, the grandmother of the popular lazy French style, and the Birkin bag was born for her. Before falling in love, Jane Birkin and Gainsbourg were both veterans in the field of love. Jane Birkin was married as early as 18 years old. Before meeting Gainsbourg, she was divorced and had a daughter. Gainsbourg always held a cigarette and hugged women on various occasions. Brigitte Bardot, France's number one sexiest stunner, once disclosed his infidelity in marriage for him. The two of them were not innocent, and they never thought that after they fell in love, they would love to death. In the photos taken by the media, they were conjoined twins holding hands wherever they went. Later, Jian Birkin gave birth to a daughter, and the relationship between the two was still the same as before. They would go to bars all night when they were not working, and would come back to catch up on sleep in the morning. As the saying goes, plainness is the truth, and the two want to love deeply. Gainsbourg once heard that Jane Birkin was going back to England without him, so he cried all night in his room. During the quarrel, Jane Birkin jumped into the Seine River in order to keep Gainsbourg...... It is said that true love will turn you into a child. This is the case with Jane Birkin and Gainsbourg, like two underage children expressing their love in the most presumptuous way. They don't get married, because they are bound by marriage, sooner or later love will become family, they use love itself as a bond, so the love is hot and vigorous." Li Chang Sheng described this French relationship as romantic without marriage, successfully fooled Yu Anmin, and will continue to fool Zhao Yongyi in the future. Yu Anmin began to think about only dating and not getting married.
Li Chang Sheng also talked about a very negative celebrity marriage, Xie Tingfeng's father Xie Xian and his ex-wife Zhenzhen. "In 1974, 37-year-old Xie Xian met Zhen Zhen, who was deeply attracted by Xie Xian. Even if the family objected to their marriage or even dating, Zhen Zhen was determined to become husband and wife with Xie Xian, It's a pity that after three years of marriage, the two had relationship problems. While Zhen Zhen and Xie Xian got married, Liu Jiachang on the other side still loved Zhen Zhen deeply. Coupled with Xie Xian's always playful personality and machismo, under the careful care of Liu Jiachang, Zhen Zhen moved on and fell in love with each other. After Xie Xian found out about this incident, he also decided to divorce Zhen Zhen. One year after the divorce, Zhen Zhen married Liu Jiachang, and they haven't seen each other since the divorce..." At this time, Yu Anmin sighed with emotion: "I met Zhenzhen 237 before, and she was really the number one beauty in Baodao before, she was super beautiful. I can understand why these two men fought for her!" Some images came to Li Changsheng's mind. That was what Zhen Zhen looked like when he was young, and he suddenly discovered that Zhen Zhen, the number one beauty in Baodao before Hu Yinmeng, was really beautiful! No wonder Lin Qingxia said that Zhen Zhen is her idol. He is said to be an idol, but in fact the screening age is not very old. He was born in 48 and is only 31 years old this year. But he quit the entertainment industry early, and went to the United States with his current husband, Liu Jiachong, where he opened a hotel. Although this Liu Jiachang is talented, he is a gambler who loves to gamble like his life. It is not a good match. It seems that in the original time and space, they divorced in the 1990s! If there is a chance to meet him in the future, Li Changsheng really wants to cut him off. Because just looking at the photos, he felt that this woman was very beautiful, her face was like a full moon, bright and moving. In other words, Zhao Liying plus is like Zhao Liying's style, but more mellow and lively than Zhao Tiaoying's whole person! The reason why Xie Xian, an old playboy like Xie Xian, who has seen countless girls, can never forget her. This woman is not only beautiful, but also has a good personality, but she is not good at meeting people!.